This was on my brother’s FaceBook after our phone call today. Why, WHY can he not simply understand that once you become a parent your children MUST be a priority, and if not that, at least give them food a shelter and LOVE.

My Brother has a five month old baby girl. She is WAY behind on her developments. WAY. She is more like a 2 month old in actions. Their three year old is out of control and he thinks its FUNNY that she swears a blue streak and physically attacks adults around her.

The worst of it though, is that he doesn’t care if they are safe. I spent five years listening to his GF bitch and complain about her mom, about the drugs her mom  used, the neglect she went through, the beatings. For five years we have all listened to J talk about this stuff, about how HORRIBLE it was growing up around this woman, the men she brought home and the lack of love.

Guess where those two innocent babies are right now? If you guessed at J’s mom’s house, you would be SPOT ON! I swear to GOD, those two need to take some Lipovox to get some of the fat out of their heads so they can think straight!

A few nights ago my brother went to the bar. 3am that morning his five month old baby cries, ‘cus ya’know, that’s what babies DO, he screamed at her to shut the Eff up. At a five month old BABY. For CRYING.

My Brother tells me he is getting rid of J and taking the girls, trying for sole custody, and we as a family backed him 100%, J is pretty unstable herself, but my brother is flat broke and apparently, living in a crack Whore’s den is preferable to getting a job. He is NOT leaving J, that’s obvious to me, as he has been staying nights with her at her mother’s house and having relations with her – and yes – he told me that.

I’ve removed my Brother from my FaceBook. It might seem like a passive aggressive move, but to me, it feels right. He will not let us help them, he will not let us care about them, and I cannot continue to torture myself over this. I just can’t!